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Na koho si d\u00e1t pozor \u00b7 Mam\u00e1nek \u2013 na t\u00e9ma mam\u00e1nci toho bylo \u0159e\u010deno i […]","datePublished":"2020-10-11","dateModified":"2023-04-27","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.cz-tat.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"cz-tat.cz\n","url":"https:\/\/www.cz-tat.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/774cfd57496a9f02284489749b4229073861faca9d8a66df7d65507a77c5d31f?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/774cfd57496a9f02284489749b4229073861faca9d8a66df7d65507a77c5d31f?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"cz-tat.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.cz-tat.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a277352_w1741_t1601752825.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.cz-tat.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a277352_w1741_t1601752825.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.cz-tat.cz\/odpovite-ano-na-zadost-o-ruku\/","about":["Mu\u017ei"],"wordCount":653,"articleBody":" Po\u017e\u00e1dal V\u00e1s o ruku? Nenechte se doj\u00edmat. Stoj\u00ed skute\u010dn\u011b za to, abyste po jeho boku str\u00e1vila cel\u00fd \u017eivot? City nejsou v\u0161e a Va\u0161e l\u00e1ska nikoho nezm\u011bn\u00ed. Poj\u010fme se spole\u010dn\u011b zamyslet nad t\u00edm, jak\u00e9mu typu mu\u017e\u016f byste se m\u011bla obloukem vyhnout.  Na koho si d\u00e1t pozor \u00b7 Mam\u00e1nek \u2013 na t\u00e9ma mam\u00e1nci toho bylo \u0159e\u010deno i naps\u00e1no spousta. Nejde jen o to, \u017ee by V\u00e1m konkurovala tch\u00fdn\u011b, pot\u00ed\u017e je p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm v tom, \u017ee by m\u011bla tendenci prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm milovan\u00e9ho syna \u0159\u00eddit i V\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivot a v\u00fdchovu Va\u0161ich d\u011bt\u00ed. A to rozhodn\u011b nesm\u00edte dovolit. \u00b7 Agresor \u2013 dom\u00e1c\u00ed n\u00e1sill\u00ed je proces. \u017d\u00e1dn\u00e1 \u017eena si nevezme mu\u017ee, o kter\u00e9m je p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dena, \u017ee je agresor. Agresivita se vyv\u00edj\u00ed. Nicm\u00e9n\u011b ur\u010dit\u00e9 symptomy lze vypozorovat u\u017e na za\u010d\u00e1tku vztahu. Pokud je V\u00e1\u0161 partner a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 cholerick\u00fd, lze o\u010dek\u00e1vat, \u017ee tato tendence bude nar\u016fstat. Rovn\u011b\u017e pokud V\u00e1m n\u011bkdy dal facku, by\u0165 malou, je jen ot\u00e1zkou \u010dasu, kdy si p\u0159estane d\u011blat serv\u00edtky. Pokud m\u00e1te pocit, \u017ee n\u011bco v jeho chov\u00e1n\u00ed nehraje, rychle pry\u010d. \u00b7 Chronick\u00fd perfekcionista \u2013 kdy\u017e m\u00e1 n\u011bkdo r\u00e1d po\u0159\u00e1dek a \u0159\u00e1d, nen\u00ed to ur\u010dit\u011b nic \u0161patn\u00e9ho. Probl\u00e9m je, kdy\u017e se perfekcionismus st\u00e1v\u00e1 patologick\u00fdm. Nejen\u017ee ka\u017ed\u00e1 v\u011bc mus\u00ed m\u00edt sv\u00e9 p\u0159esn\u00e9 m\u00edsto, ale tak\u00e9 ve\u0161ker\u00e9 aktivity Va\u0161e a d\u011bt\u00ed jsou pe\u010dliv\u011b prozkoum\u00e1v\u00e1ny a podrobov\u00e1ny p\u0159\u00edsn\u00e9 kritice. Nejinak je tomu s v\u00fddaji, p\u0159esn\u00e9 z\u00fa\u010dtov\u00e1n\u00ed a vysv\u011btlov\u00e1n\u00ed. Takov\u00fd \u017eivot se d\u0159\u00edve \u010di pozd\u011bji stane utrpen\u00edm pro V\u00e1s i d\u011bti. \u00b7 Z\u00e1visl\u00e1k. \u017de \u017eivot s alkoholikem je cesta peklem, je samoz\u0159ejm\u00e9. T\u00fdk\u00e1 se to ov\u0161em jak\u00fdchkoli z\u00e1vislost\u00ed. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b ani \u017eivot s gamblerem nen\u00ed proch\u00e1zkou r\u016f\u017eovou zahradou. D\u016fsledkem jak\u00e9koli patologick\u00e9 z\u00e1vislosti je to, \u017ee doty\u010dn\u00fd ni\u010d\u00ed a strh\u00e1v\u00e1 na sam\u00e9 dno nejen sebe, ale tak\u00e9 celou svoji rodinu. Nenechte se strhnout na dno \u00b7 D\u011bvka\u0159. Mo\u017en\u00e1 je V\u00e1\u0161 milovan\u00fd atraktivn\u00ed a m\u00e1 charisma. Ostatn\u00ed \u017eeny V\u00e1m ho z\u00e1vid\u00ed a Vy jste hrd\u00e1, \u017ee si vybral pr\u00e1v\u011b V\u00e1s. Tu a tam si sice zajde na kafe s n\u011bjakou d\u00e1mou, ale to p\u0159ece nic neznamen\u00e1. A co kdy\u017e ano? Mu\u017e samoz\u0159ejm\u011b nen\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fdm Va\u0161\u00edm majetkem a odej\u00edt od V\u00e1s m\u016f\u017ee kv\u016fli jin\u00e9 \u017eeny kdokoli, ale je pravda, \u017ee ur\u010dit\u00ed mu\u017ei si v tomto ohledu prost\u011b nedok\u00e1\u017e\u00ed pomoci. Pro\u010d byste si ov\u0161em kv\u016fli toho m\u011bla zkazit \u017eivot. Vztah je p\u0159ece hlavn\u011b o d\u016fv\u011b\u0159e. \u00b7 Ne\u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00fd mu\u017e \u2013 pen\u00edze nejsou v\u0161echno, ale jestli\u017ee je V\u00e1\u0161 partner velmi laxn\u00ed co se t\u00fd\u010de zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed a obstar\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed financ\u00ed, m\u011bla byste zpozorn\u011bt. Pokud m\u00edsto hled\u00e1n\u00ed lep\u0161\u00ed pr\u00e1ce tr\u00e1v\u00ed \u010das sn\u011bn\u00edm a neust\u00e1l\u00fdm pl\u00e1nov\u00e1n\u00ed a\u017e jednou, rozhodn\u011b byste se m\u011bla pt\u00e1t sama sebe, zda V\u00e1m takov\u00fd mu\u017e bude oporou a zda s n\u00edm lze pl\u00e1novat zalo\u017een\u00ed rodiny. \u00b7 Kari\u00e9rista \u2013 Pokud je mu\u017e \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00fd podnikatel, mnoho \u010dasu na rodinu mu nezb\u00fdv\u00e1. S t\u00edm mus\u00ed \u017eena po\u010d\u00edtat, je to n\u011bco za n\u011bco. Dobr\u00fd \u017eivotn\u00ed standard mus\u00ed b\u00fdt n\u011b\u010d\u00edm vykoupen\u00fd. Na stran\u011b druh\u00e9, pokud je V\u00e1\u0161 mu\u017e kari\u00e9rista a workoholik, kter\u00fd se na t\u00e9ma rodina vyslovuje vla\u017en\u011b, je na m\u00edst\u011b polo\u017eit si ot\u00e1zku, zda dobr\u00fd \u017eivotn\u00ed standard stoj\u00ed za to b\u00fdt na v\u0161echno sama.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Odpov\u00edte ano na \u017e\u00e1dost o ruku?","item":"https:\/\/www.cz-tat.cz\/odpovite-ano-na-zadost-o-ruku\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]